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Feel like a total intruder....but need a man's advice? hope you don't mind [smile]

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chickybabe · 07/08/2009 22:34

Just a quick question. H and I have been on a rocky road for many years, and have recently called it a day. He has subsequently met someone else. All this is quite new, and am not beating myself up about OW as I know its not about me (soooo complicated)and I dont want him back because is an arsehole.

What I want to know is, if I asked him over for what could we call it....the last shag, would that be sending all the wrong signals? Basically our sex life has always been amazing, am dying for a shag and dont feel ready to do it with anyone else

I apologise in advance for being blunt or maybe coming to the wrong place, but I dont have many male friends, and if I asked the relationships forum, they may well stone me to death .

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thomsc · 08/08/2009 11:09

oooh tricky

chickybabe · 08/08/2009 11:49

Its ok, had 1 glass of wine to many when I posted that!! quickly realised it would be a very bad idea - note to self MUST NOT DRINK TOO MUCH WINE!!!

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captainaffray · 25/08/2009 12:27

They (the experts) reckon that shagging after splitting up is part of the breaking up process.

Personally it would be a real tester as to how loyal he his to his new OW and you may be upset if he rejects the idea, or if he agrees, there could be huge fallout.

Go and get yourself someone new. There are plenty of unattached blokes out there who would like good shag without, and without the fallout.

Hormonesnomore · 25/08/2009 19:30

Don't do it chickybabe!!

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