I am 8 weeks pregnant and I KNOW that I am being an emotional disaster. My DH is putting up with it admirably, and to make matters worse I can't even begin to think about sex. I would like to know what all of you men think about little ways in which I can make an effort/nice things I can do etc. for those few minutes in the day I don't feel tired and sick. I encourage him to go out and see friends, etc. because I am having trouble keeping sane. If it were me, I'd want baths run for me and nice meals, etc. What do men want when they're spoiled?