Hi everyone so here’s the story,
I’m currently in family court to get more access to my daughter, here’s where I’m coming unstuck though.
I first submitted my C100 form last June 2025 at the time I was in a relationship with my ex partner. Since then we have split up, entirely my choice as I couldn’t cope or handle it anymore.
My ex-partner works for the Essex Police as a call handler so she is technically part of ‘police staff’. What my ex-partner has done is made serious false allegations against me (rape among other things). She knew I was going through family court and had done this to get her revenge maliciously and abuse her position of trust working within the police.
She first made allegations of rape when we come back of holiday in July 2025. I was on bail for 6 months and nothing came to it as they were ‘investigating’ absolutely nothing! I went back to my bail after 6 months being on bail and she has made new ‘allegations’. Apparently I raped her in July 2024.
We met on holiday in June 2024, continued to see each other and officially got together in September 2024. We then had a 9 month long distant relationship (I would see her every weekend) which ended in July 2025. She has a son and I have a daughter. I met her family, friends, we had done numerous activities with the kids and getaways and even had a holiday. I also have looked after her soon when she was at work or ill etc.
The issue is because I’m in family court, I’m seen at this monster on paper that has and will never be proven an established fact as I haven’t done nothing wrong. How can someone who works for the police keep making false allegations against me with no consequences?
I got ordered no contact with indirect contact, now I’m currently at the stage of supervised contact. I done about 7 sessions over a few months of supervised contact all of which was positive. Had second hearing in December 2025 and had to write a position statement in regards to the corrupt social services Section 7 report being done.
This social worker has lied, been biased and tried to oversell this negative report which is so blatantly biased against me. Social worker never gave me a fair assessment (never looked at my daughters room (for all they know there could of just been a mattress on the floor), treated unproven allegations as fact, and made false information about myself in this report)
The funny thing is, what the mother of my daughter’s new partner has done, they have had a newborn baby in July 2025, he ended up ‘accidentally’ dropping the newborn and social services got involved because of it (nothing to do with me or our daughter). It got deemed an accident and he’s still allowed around my daughter despite all my safeguarding concerns around him.
He’s got previous domestic against women, has sworn and shouted amongst other things towards my daughter who’s 5 now, and even him and mother of my daughter have had domestic between themselves. How corrupt?
When I was with the mother of my
daughter for almost 6 years, no domestic whatsoever between us and no police reports or nothing whilst we were together.
I have no previous other than 2 incidents when I was under 16 (this got used against me in the report). All my adult history is non-existent apart from these allegations.
I can explain more bits to the story but I’m stuck as self representing and I’m fighting an uphill battle. The whole system is so corrupt and broken and good fathers like me are being denied human rights and father rights.
Been in my daughters life since birth, when split we in May 2024, I had her every weekend so mother could work. Then I wanted to see her more so we agreed 50/50. This happened for about 6 months until she changed it to ‘every other weekend’ in February 2025 for no valid reason (definitely no safeguarding concerns). She agreed in first mediation to do 50/50 but one week on one week off so half and half. She’s backtracked since then and had to go to court route.
Social services are on her side, but there’s nothing against me other than these allegations. Social services are no longer involved in my daughter’s life as they were only involved to write the report. It’s so corrupt and I want people to know the truth as people are playing god in other peoples lives.
Sorry about the post it’s a bit everywhere with information but that’s the general gist of it. If anyone has any questions then I’ll happily reply. Just want to hear everyone’s experiences please or if anyone has been in the same sort of situation. Thank you for reading.