Relationships and types

[Dom34]

I'm wondering if there is a point to continuing my relationship from a man's perspective.
I found out my partner was following women on social media accounts with large breasts and bums. Numerous accounts, and throught the relationship I would see the same type of women on his feed. A couple of times he sent memes relating to it. He has used porn often and I can imagine it's the same on there.
But I can't stop wondering if there is a point to being in a relationship with him. I have average sized breasts, I do not look like these women. I am confident with my appearance but literally speaking, I do not look like them.
In these modern times it is seen as normal to fantasise about other women whilst in a relationship. But surely if you have a fantasy, you might aswell fulfill it?
If deep down he clearly has a type, is there a point in continuing this relationship from a man's perspective? My idea of a relationship is it is sacred and you enjoy and have fun together. This just all feels immature to me.

I’m not a man but I would say from the knowledge I do have, men often watch porn about the type of women they would not want to be with in ‘real life’. It doesn’t necessarily reflect on how he feels about you. HOWEVER, following real women on social media is unacceptable and creepy, sending the memes etc — this isn’t just privately using porn a couple of times.

I don’t think most people have a strict type. When I was younger I used to think I was into only big breasts, I realised that all sizes were great and now I wouldn’t mind as long as I was attracted to the overall package. Forget his porn preferences, it bears zero relevance to real life for most blokes who will generally be happy with any women who they consider to be in their league. So as long as you’re not punching massively above your weight I would say you have nothing to worry about.

If porn preferences bear zero relevance then why is it always the same thing with him? I'm curious as to why guys say their porn preference is different to reality, is it fantasy?

Yes just a fantasy, and very few people are with literally their dream person whether that’s a man or woman. Doesn’t mean they aren’t happy.

Imagine if your partner heard you say that. Honestly that's pathetic lol "dream person" what do you mean dream person, someone pumped with silicone that you wank to on hub?

Good grief you’re insecure! Just split up with him then.

That is literally the answer so many guys reply with. There is no insecurity here. I am confident with who I am and what I look like. I was asking what the point was, when really deep down I guess there isn't a point is there lol

Have you ever watched porn or pleasured yourself whilst regularly thinking of a certain type of man? The psychology at a root level behind this is exactly the same as it would be for most females.

I think it’s also pretty common for people to fantasise about a type that is far removed from the one they’re in a relationship with.