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K9JSB · 06/11/2023 09:50

Where do I even start !?

Ill get straight to the bare bones…

I’m a father to a 6 year old girl who is my absolute world. After separating from her mother 2 years ago, she went straight to a solicitor to get a restraining order against me seeing my child claiming I’d been viciously beating my little girl.

The courts sprang straight into action and put a no direct or indirect order in place (which is understandable considering the accusations).

After several court hearing the judge ruled that the claims by the mother were nonsense but, the restraining orders remained in place as my child started repeating her daddy hits her and she’s scared. The police investigated these claims and made it clear my child shows signs of coaching and they will be taking no further action on the claims.

The courts ordered for me and my little girl to have 3 sessions of seeing eachother in a neutral location with the ICFA analysing the visitations.

Visit 1 - Mother did not let child meet her father as the location was an outdoor park and it was drizzling.

Visit 2 - Mother claimed child was too scared to see her father. ICFA lady spoke to child who seemed happy, relaxed and wanted to know if daddy had brought her presents.

Visit 3 - Cancelled by the ICFA as it was clear between child and mother the visit would not go
ahead so ICFA lady had some one to one time with child.

I don’t need to go into detail of the devastation I’m going through and fear for the damage the mother is doing to our child..

How is the court allowing this to continue !!!?

Why do they appear so powerless to this evil mother?

What more can I do ?????

Thoughts, opinions, questions.. please, fire away

OP posts:
DustyLee123 · 06/11/2023 09:56

Have you had legal advice ?

K9JSB · 06/11/2023 13:10

Yes. Who have run circles around the mothers lies and her legal representation who is supporting her nonsense. And still we can’t get the judge to take positive action against the mother.

It appears once the child says she’s scared (regardless of the coaching and the ICFA observing zero fear in the child) the courts hands are tied.

I just can’t understand how any fathers get past a mother who is persistent in causing maximum damage when the courts simply seem to be going through the motions to protect their own back.

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fedupandstuck · 06/11/2023 13:13

No one here will be able to advise you better than an appropriate solicitor. You should ask your solicitor what the next steps are after the attempts at supervised visits broke down. They will be able to advise you on your next legal steps.

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