Men's opinions please: sex / feeling of fanny after childbirth?

[Alexa808]

I'd like to ask a question which has long been bugging me, but didn't dare to ask because I was shy.
Now that I'm pregnant myself, curiosity got the better of me and I'd like you to share your experiences:

does a woman's fanny feel different (more loose, scar tissue, less friction during intercourse, etc.) after giving birth naturally?

Is it true that a womn will never feel as tight again after giving birth? Or are certain practices off limits now?

Will it ever grow back to normal? It's a muscle after all, no?

Nope! not in almost 2 years! no idea why not, he says he still finds me attractive etc etc, but he didn't want another baby, so I guess it's something to do with that! Bloody frustrating though

I think my DH is just so happy to be getting any at all he wouldn't care if it was like parking a mini in an aircraft hangar. Not that it is of course

Hi.After worrying and nobody to ask finally I am here.I have 3 kids,During my 2nd child s I got stitches birth I ended up getting stitches down there.They came off within a month and I did not bother to go back to my doctor because they were too sore.When i did go to my doctor it was too late to get anything done according to my doctor.Now the problem is that whenever me and my husband have sex I don't feel anything and I have never experienced orgasm since 11 years now.I just wanted to know how should I approach my doctor and can stitches be put back together on NHS.Please help!!

My partner had a child from a previous relationship and so I've only experienced sex with her post child birth. In my experience the whole subject of a woman's vagina feeling better if it feel "tight" is a myth. My partner does not feel as tight as some of my previous partners, but I would definitely say that she feels 10x better to me, which is not solely due to our emotional connection. She physically feels a lot better. In the past I generally could last quite a long time without cumming, in fact with "tighter" women I often had a problem reaching orgasm. However, with my partner I nearly always find myself on the verge of cumming with in only a few minutes. She feels amazing, but she is definitely not tight, and far better in my opinion.

Has anyone had a 'Nu-V' laser treatment? Its expensive, but I keep thinking about it. I'd like to know if the improvement lasts or if it 'wears off'

In my experience yes it does get looser. I couldn't care less. The connection between vaginal tightness and male satisfaction is, IMO, an old wife's tale. It's also such a small price to pay for the gift of a child any man who complains about it doesn't deserve to have kids or their mother.