We have a two girls (3 years and 7 months) and moved to a new area last year, and I’m really struggling to make local dad friends or “family friends” more generally.
The oldest goes to a local nursery which is very small, we had some classmates round for my daughter’s birthday, got on well with parents but had no invites back. When I bump into them on pickup the dads make no effort or are even more shy than me. Can’t tell which.
Wife is on mat leave and has met some mums this time (as opposed to the first time during Covid) but sees them during the week and they never bring partners/husbands anyway.
My general impression is that most dads aren’t looking for more dad friends. I do understand that, as there is barely time to breathe as a parent and with work, family and our “real” friends. Plus we men tend to rely on their partners for social connections, too.
I’m lucky to have a large friendship group but none with young kids. I feel like my social life is stuck in my 20s, whereas everywhere I go I see couple friends or just dad friends with kids. I want to be able to share these times with other dads, not relive wild nights out in the pub. And as someone that isn’t a natural “loner” this is really starting to get me down.
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Feels impossible to make dad friends
LondonDadOf2 · 18/07/2023 19:54
rampagingrobot · 18/07/2023 20:37
If you setup a WhatsApp group or something for the birthday party put out on that you are heading to the park or something tomorrow and would anyone like to join you etc.
We did that after our son's birthday and then other people started posting as well, and now it's become a general play date group for the kiddies and social group for the olds.
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