Invasion of privacy

[MuyBien]

Hi all, my brother is going through a divorce and he's been speaking to me about it. I've given my opinion from an outside perspective and I also spoke about her faults as a person and how it could of caused problems in their marriage.

I just found out she has been listening to our conversations through the ring/security camera for God knows how long. And this is someone who thinks strongly about invasion of privacy!! And has accused me of disrespecting her in her own home indirectly through my brother.

I don't have any bad feelings towards her because my own experiences have been ok. She can be moody sometimes but I just on with it.

And am In the wrong here?

Thanks

[MuyBien]

Whoops.. at the end of message I meant 'Am I in the wrong here?' lol

[Assistanttotheregionalmanager]

Of course not

[MayorDusty]

Well were you in her house when she heard you giving your opinion on her?

[MuyBien]

@MayorDusty

Well were you in her house when she heard you giving your opinion on her?

I was in her house but she has been listening to our conversations through the recordings the camera picks up when movement is detected.

[MayorDusty]

If you were in your own house and overheard someone giving opinions on you that you didn't like would you feel disrespected?
I've no clue if she's lovely, terrible or inbetween but she's right.
Unless she was secretly recording her husband (even then it would be him that's aggrieved, you had no expectation of privacy) she's not done anything wrong and is not wrong saying she felt disrespected.

[MuyBien]

@MayorDusty

If you were in your own house and overheard someone giving opinions on you that you didn't like would you feel disrespected?
I've no clue if she's lovely, terrible or inbetween but she's right.
Unless she was secretly recording her husband (even then it would be him that's aggrieved, you had no expectation of privacy) she's not done anything wrong and is not wrong saying she felt disrespected.

I understand what your saying but I didn't expect someone to purposely go through video recordings to see what we were talking about. It was a private conversation between two people.

I think anybody would be upset about someone talking about them. Maybe I should of kept my thoughts to myself but I thought I was helping my brother.

[brownwhisker]

Shes bang out of order