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Need advice from a male perspective

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feelingreallylow · 25/11/2007 15:31

I have posted once before on MN but in the Relationships section.

I am 26 weeks pregnant with my 35 year old (I am 24) partners 1st child.

I am a very insecure person but was wondering whether I am truly being paranoid or whether I have a right to be?

OK here goes, I have had a problem with my o/h having a myspace account due to certain comments etc on there.

We rowed about this before as there was one girl who had her main picture on her myspace of them both together. I thought this was wrong. Also comments before we got together and pictures make me think that something happened between them. O/H denies this however.

Then recently I checked his myspace page and he had changed his mood to horny. I confronted him and we had a huge row as I saw it as an invite to women and also I had recently come across he had another email account that I didn't know about.

He has now deleted his myspace account and I confronted him about the email address which he claims is for his music. So I used his computer recently to go on the internet and found he had created another myspace account. He hasn't mentioned it and neither have I.

Also he used to chat with a girl who was in a relationship from Australia before he met me. He deleted her off his Yahoo Messenger etc just as we got together but she has started trying to message him again? Also her boyfriend requested to be added on to his friends list and he has accepted it.

So what I want to know is does this sound like my O/H is chatting to other ladies online?

He was single for at least 10 years (he claims) before he met me and lived at home with his mum and dad.

Opinions would be appreciated

OP posts:
EricL · 25/11/2007 16:05

"I am a very insecure person"

I think you have summed it up there. His actions by your accounts are a little insensitive considering the above statement you made - but he is not doing anything wrong.

I work on the net a lot and have a messaging service and MySpace with lots of female friends on it. I am just chatting to them as friends and nothing more. My DW is fine with this and i tell her all about them and have nothing to hide as i would never be unfaithful.

She has male friends the same. We are both confident and allow each other the space and trust we need.

What is it that i do on here most of the time? That's right - chat to women. It shouldn't be an issue. It's just one person talking to another - it doesn't matter what sex they are.

Get yourself an account and see how it works yourself. You will enjoy it and see it is just harmless fun!

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