My girlfriend is a German citizen and 7 months pregnant. I’m in the British military and I live in the uk. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride over the pregnancy. She doesn’t like me being in the military and says”if you don’t leave to move to Germany then You will not see you son”.
This put a lot of pressure on me because I have 2 mortgages. I have managed to calm her a bit by getting a successful career intermission application authorised from work for 1 year. This still concerns me because I don’t get paid for the 1 sabbatical. I will be in Germany supporting my son and paying for 2 mortgages back in the uk whilst living off savings.
She says that I should sell one of my houses and that I’m being selfish I’m not doing so.
I don’t know how to feel, maybe I am be selfish?
To add to my worries she has started talking and visiting her ex back in Germany, she now says that she doesn’t want me at the birth and that her ex is going instead.
She keeps on talking about a plans she has made and how much I should pay in child support.
There are many other issues, but that’s a brief outline of our situation.
She says that I would have to pay child support, around €370,which I’m more then happy to do if we don’t figure things out.
But now she said that she is also entitled to a further €800 for her self to cover the money that she would be paid if she could work.
She said that our child is also entitled to half my house.
It probably sounds like she is just after Money, but she has never been like this during our relationship. We always go half’s on things.
I would like to know what rights I have over my son?
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John5 · 17/02/2021 02:50
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