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Am I over reacting?!

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JDad94 · 17/12/2020 00:52

Hi, I'll try and keep this short.

So after breaking up with the ex about 2 years ago she has been with 4 other guys from what I know. That doesn't bother me, what bothers me is that she immediately Introduces them to my kids. She doesn't tell me this, one of her friends does as she also thinks it's out of order to bring someone into their lives for a few months and then one day they are just gone.

The main thing now is that from what I know shes been seeing someone on off for around a year. I know this because I keep seeing her profile on tinder every now and then. She's never told me she's seeing someone, she hasn't told me he's moved in and the thing that really gets me is that all over his facebook page he has pictures posted of him and my kids, with captions like (their the light in my life or love these kids).

What I want to know is do you think she should of told me that she was bringing someone Into their lives ( multiple people ) or am I over reacting? As I know that if it was the other way around then there would be hell to pay.

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changedmynameforChristmas · 17/12/2020 00:56

She sounds pretty thick to me. Maybe she has not even thought about telling you about her boyfriends. Perhaps you should have had the conversation with her before now ?
Maybe she knows you will kick off so she says nothing ?

What do your children think about the new guy?

Wibble01 · 19/12/2020 00:00

Kids need stability and routine. All you can do is provide that mate.

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