My wife and I have been together for 12 years and married for 5 years. We have 2 beautiful amazing children.
We were looking at houses on her phone when a couple of messages from a Male colleague message her and said he fancied her and miss not seeing her at work even though he knew she was married with 2 kids. I confronted my wife and she knew nothing about this and doesn't really know the guy apart from saying hi whilst passing working on the shop floor. I told her she needs to tell him she is not interested and married. But she said she will ignore the text and delete it and the situation. Should I be concern and what would you do? I literally feel sick about this but my wife just argues back saying, its nothing and she doesn't have feeling for him. She will go back to work acting like she never got the text. I'm at a loss, I love my wife very much but this is eating me up.