Ex-girlfriend AIBU - men's viewpoint would be very welcome..

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Hi I've posted this in Relationships but wondered if any dads out there might have an opinion on my situation?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/7/394988

Sorry - it's just plain weird. Why would he want to run errands for an ex? Why would the ex want him to? Haircuts? Woah - back off there! If it's over, it's over. If it aint - it aint. Other people might see it differently, but going out as a foursome? Nursing her after the op? Having her photo on the mantlepiece? Paying for her health insurance? yup - just the sort of thing any right minded person would do after being dumped by an unfaithful partner...

FFS...what happens if (when) Ms Moodypants splits up with her current bloke? Who will she look to for solace and support? From what you say - she split with him so it was not his choice.... sounds to me like he's just filling in time untill he gets his feet under the table again... I hope I'm wrong, but he's either with you or he isn't. Put it to him. If he isn't, he never was.

Not right at all. She is using him cos she knows he had feelings for her cos she ended it and i bet he made it clear at the time that he wanted her back.

I would never do something like this and she knows what she is doing to you.

He needs to stay away from her. Plain and simple. It is an ex relationship that should remain in the past.

She sounds like a right manipulative cow as well - tugging at the heart strings with her daughter. Not a nice situation at all and i sympathise with you.

At least it shows your partner is not a heartless sod anyway.........