Sons Party at Exes House

[Dad87Uk]

My Ex is having our sons 3rd birthday party at hers and has invited me, my new partner and her child from a previous relationship. My ex is asking me not to attend after previously stating she would and now has said all of her friends agree I shouldn't attend. I personally don't see the problem as me and my ex are amicable. I will be attending. However does she have a point?

I am a mother and would not be inviting my ex into my house for a party, but that's another story.

What reason did she give beyond her friends telling her it was a bad idea? It is unfair to invite you and then to cancel but can you not have your own little celebration when your DS is with you anyway?

Sorry. I mean my new partner agreed to attend and then stated she wouldn't be.

I have my son on the Friday night as I do when it's not my Friday to Monday weekend and drop him back off Saturday morning. And will be having pizza with my family and him on the Friday.

Your new partner doesn't want to go and doesn't want you to go either? If she's uncomfortable it's maybe fair enough for her not to go. She is out of order to expect you not to go if you are welcome and want to go. It's not about her it's about your DS.

Thank you that's what I thought. I understand her reasons. However she has said she feels it will be all happy families between myself and my ex.