Child access ( weekends )

[Scouse1981]

Hello everyone I’m new to the group and I’m after some advice so I apologize for the Jeremy Kyle update but I need some advice

Myself and my wife have split up and going through the divorce process. I have been in the same job 10 years now which involves weekend working

The agreement at the moment is that I have the children overnight two nights a week. The nights vary because of the shift patterns. My current shift pattern is a 4 week on whereby I work 2 weekends then I have the next two off.

What I have proposed to the wife is that once every eight weeks so that’s one weekend out of two shift cycles I don’t have the kids but I have them through the week instead. I think I’m been quite reasonable there and not shirking any responsibility. She isn’t happy as at that time she could have them three weekends in a row. I’ve explained when I’m off I’m having them 3 out of four

Anyway she is now threatening to go to court and make them insist I have them every other weekend which I simply can’t given my current job. So can anyone help

1. can she really do this
2. do people think I’m been reasonable

Any advice appreciated

Cheers

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It might be worth mentioning the kids ages too?

^ good advice.

Before court you’d need to have mediation to that’s the next step anyway if you’re at an impasse.