Trying to get Pregnant without consulting

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I'm 99% certain my wife is trying to get pregnant without telling me (yes I know it takes the two of us)

I've been fairly clear this isn't what I want in the past and feel her doing this is pretty low.

What do I do?

Talk to her about it. And use a condom

How do you think she's doing it? And why do you think she's doing it without telling you?

Have you asked her about it? How long have you been married?

If you don't want a baby then abstain or use a condom but remember no birth control is 100% effective.

Stop having sex with her.

We'd been inactive for ages for various reasons. Tried to talk about it with her. It was very difficult.

Suddenly out of the blue we were very active for a few days 2 weeks before her period was due then nothing.

Feeling used after being so open about my feelings and not getting much in return.

I'm definately keeping it in my pants as a starting measure. This is feeling really deceitful. Got big decisions to make.

You don't make big decisions if you're 99% sure. Talk to her. If she's desperate for kids and you don't want them it may be the end.

So, you didn't use a condom?

Loads of women get more 'urges' around/during their period, why do you think this time it was specifically to get pregnant?

What kind of birth control are you using?

Personally I only really feel like sex when I'm ovulating.

What has happened?

If you feel as though you need to avoid having sex with your wife due to reasons of incompatible life plans, I think that it's time to divorce her.

You make sure you're protected

Buy your own condoms and keep them safe. Make sure you wear them

Talk to your wife.

Is it just this one occasion where you had sex mid cycle?

I'm another one who only wants sex during ovulation

Dh always looks forward to it.

No more babies are on our cards though

I think you should talk to her. If you truly believe that this is what is happening then this is a really distrusting thing for her to do.

Maybe if you really don't want children use other forms of protection.

Why do you think she is trying to get pregnant?

You can't have sex with her if you can't trust her.

Sounds like you both want things that are too different and it is probably time to call time.

Did you discuss kids before marriage?

Communication is key. I'm sure it's just been a long time coming and she now has he urge to have sex.

Use a condom and continue having sex. If she doesn't allow you to use one then ASK why

Just the situation the male pill is ideal for.....and just the reason it will never make it to the market.

Have you thought about sticking a condom on? It is your knob after all. Seems so simple

Just the situation the male pill is ideal for.....and just the reason it will never make it to the market.

Ha!

Use condoms. Or don't have vaginal sex. Talk to her.