I posted before and had some really good responses, but basically it's now just getting worse. We did make love nearly five weeks ago but it was a fumbled quicky after drinking. Then not really anything since, we have managed to talk a little and apparently whilst she really enjoys it when we do she's not really bothered about it generally. It seems I am meant to take solace from the fact that it isn't just me that doesn't fill her with lust (sadly I still find this depressing). It's just really getting me down I am already on a.d. I have been trying hard to do over and above what I normally do round the house. I just hope it's a lull and it will somehow get back to how it used to be, I just struggle to see that. Sorry for long rambling.