I've been with my partner for about 12 yrs and we have 4 lovely kids between us
We both have a child each from previous partners
Problem is my partner ( or is it me )
I feel that in just being used as a cash cow as she she seems uninterested in me as a person anymore
We live in a 4 bedroom property and she has moved me into a spare room while an additional double bed was moved into the main bedroom were all my 4 children sleep at night ( all under 7 ) with her
No matter how much money I transfer in to the joint account per month
She manages to spend it all and more
And when I question it she's very defensive
She hasn't spoken to her father for over 15 yrs
Hasn't spoken to her older brother for about 8 yrs
Fallen out with her other brother for about 2 yrs
And she hates her mom with a passion
She has also now fallen out with her daughter over her daughters friendship with her grandmother
I've noticed that she is a very jealous person and cannot stand the friendship I have with my mother
She seems to criticise any friend she has and has an opinion on most things
I once fell out with as she wasn't happy as my son ( from a previous partner)
Came over to stay with me , and i said it my house I'll do what I want
She forced me to sign over half of the house to her name or she would leave me , I agreed and gave her half the house
Now I'm getting fed up with it all and want out, but I know she will make it hard for me and will take me for everything
We've already been to relate a few yrs ago
I'm pulling my hair out here