stupidly jealous

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1wheelsenough · 09/07/2012 12:53

Not sure why now but just recently been driving myself crazy jealous.
Been married for 15 years, together a lot longer.
Not sure why but recently just been feeling incredibly jealous over 'imagined' past, Wife has always been open with me, infact shared circle of friends, so no surprises and yet suddenly getting upset about chap she had house with before we got together and the guy she was with after that broke down.
Now all this happend before I even know her, nothign has changed for us and yet I feel like a stupid 15 year old kid.
Just venting at myself really, thanks for reading...

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UnimaginitiveDadThemedUsername · 09/07/2012 13:32

Have you talked to her about it?

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1wheelsenough · 09/07/2012 13:42

NO, thing is there is no reason for this to be an issue, so not sure what to say that doesn't make me sound like an immature, insecure loon and she certainly doesn't need that.

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ThePan · 09/07/2012 18:55

How old are you, 1wheels? Can you recall exactly when these thoughts started?

flatpackhamster · 09/07/2012 21:44

Something will have triggered these thoughts off. Is there some element of your life which is less secure now than it was before?

peoplesrepublicofmeow · 11/07/2012 22:20

talk to her, and tell her you know it's irrationel but you cant help how you feel. the very fact that your talking here means that your trying to process these sentiments . your probobly feeling a little vunerable , you were not expecting these feelings ? tell her, she will probobly be suprised, but i have the feeling she will listen.

AdoraBell · 12/07/2012 04:47

Do you have any old insecurities left over from childhood? Could that be what's behind it? If she hasn't done anything and nothing has changed then it's something unrelated to her.

Hope you can resolve whatever is behind it.

madas · 12/07/2012 16:32

This is happening to me but in a slightly different way, must be the weather.

flatpackhamster · 12/07/2012 16:42

You want to tell us about it?

PissyDust · 12/07/2012 16:46

And me madas, no real reason why but I'm thinking it is gut instinct

madas · 13/07/2012 14:20

I have this compulsion to know all about her previous liasons wtf. We have been married for years and i have never been bothered about it in the past, there is no trigger point i can think off. Its hacking me off big time as to why im wasting so much energy winding myself up.

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