Background: I have been with my DP for 18 months and lived with him for about a year of that. He has four children that stay with us every other weekend. When we first got together and were living separately, he was very highly sexed - I was worrying I wouldn't be able to keep up with him. Sometimes 3x a night... he was all over me like a rash. We'd do it all over the house, christen the rooms, risky places, etc...
However, that has whittled down to maybe once/twice a week in bed or on the sofa... He hasn't gone off sex, so much as instigating it. If I start it or ask for it, it does tend to happen. But unless I ask for a kiss, cuddle, sex etc... I don't think he would...
Is this the honeymoon period being over or has he gone off me? He is so good to me in other, more practical ways like DIY, portioning up veg for the freezer, walking the dogs etc... but sometimes I just want to be whisked off my feet and made love to off the cuff!!!
I am very tactile and demonstrative of my affection... I've never met a bloke who's pushed my hand away from "down there" or turned down a BJ because he's tired or not in the mood...