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Is this gaslighting ?

3 replies

tattonlane · 04/12/2025 15:01

“Thats what your insanity has done to me”

“You’re having a breakdown”

You don’t seem to know what you’re saying”

“You’re perception of things is so far removed”

“You are not in a stable place”

“Go away and get help”

“I can Cleary see you’re not in a good state of mind, seek help”

“You changed beyond recognition”

“You appear so paranoid”

“I’m sick and tired of your perception”

  • “You’re absolutely obsessed with trying to catch me out or prove something, Its all part of this narcissistic abuse and paranoia you have”
  • “I agree I think you desperately need help”

“Your narcissist overflated ego prevents you from seeing this”

  • “You do this constantly saying different things in the same sentence. It shows how fragmented your sense of reality is”

“You live in a delusional, paranoid fantasy world, its very distressing and sad to see”

”You are a very damaged person, and I can only pray for the sake of your children that you get the help that you need”

  • “These delusional responses are so sad, I feel sorry for you”

“You saying you wanted to kill yourself twice”

”You display traits of narcissistic personality disorder and are highly dysregulated showing characteristics of bipolar or ADHD. This led to the loss of your marriage, family, home and job”

“I know you're desperately trying to make sense of your psychological state but in order for you to be signposted to the right type of help you need to tell the health care professionals the truth.
The truth is that your behaviour and personality changed beyond recognition”

OP posts:
tattonlane · 04/12/2025 15:20

Thats what your insanity has done to me”
“You’re having a breakdown”
You don’t seem to know what you’re saying”
“You’re perception of things is so far removed”
“You are not in a stable place”
“Go away and get help”
“I can Cleary see you’re not in a good state of mind, seek help”
“You changed beyond recognition”
“You appear so paranoid”
“I’m sick and tired of your perception”

  • “You’re absolutely obsessed with trying to catch me out or prove something, Its all part of this narcissistic abuse and paranoia you have”
  • “I agree I think you desperately need help”
“Your narcissist overflated ego prevents you from seeing this”
  • “You do this constantly saying different things in the same sentence. It shows how fragmented your sense of reality is”
“You live in a delusional, paranoid fantasy world, its very distressing and sad to see” ”You are a very damaged person, and I can only pray for the sake of your children that you get the help that you need”
  • “These delusional responses are so sad, I feel sorry for you”
“You saying you wanted to kill yourself twice” ”You display traits of narcissistic personality disorder and are highly dysregulated showing characteristics of bipolar or ADHD. This led to the loss of your marriage, family, home and job” “I know you're desperately trying to make sense of your psychological state but in order for you to be signposted to the right type of help you need to tell the health care professionals the truth. The truth is that your behaviour and personality changed beyond recognition”
OP posts:
bigboykitty · 04/12/2025 15:24

It sounds a lot like it to me, unless there has been real personality change, in which case I would expect a lot more worry and concern. What's the context, if you feel you want to share it?

chunkyBoo · 04/12/2025 15:42

It would be if the person saying it is hiding affaires and trying to gaslight the partner into thinking they’re mad

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