I’ve recently had an odd situation where a male made some very strange comments towards me (sexual in nature). I got a danger vibe right from meeting him, and after these comments and his body language I felt extremely fearful to the point I left the building and called security. He was blocking my exit and I had to joke/laugh my way out. Security agreed the male should be removed (I don’t really want to say where from for anonymity) but as nothing actually happened there’s been nothing done further. I’m quite sure if I hadn’t managed to get out, he would have physically pushed himself on me.
However, this could be completely in my head and I would never want to lose someone their job, if the remarks (although totally inappropriate) were standalone and they would have never gone further. I’m now fearful of the backlash from this person for reporting them and also if I’ve left other women vulnerable (although I’m not sure what else I could report and who to?).
Im now even fearful at home, worrying he might want repercussions for me snubbing him. My DH thinks I’m a little paranoid but this prickly feeling won’t seem to go away.
Has anyone ever been in this situation where they feel they’ve just avoided the worst case scenario but it’s now also left you vulnerable and not able to actually report anything?