Need advice please!?

[Colee321]

My partner and I attended our 12 week appointment during which the midwife took an interest in my personal life and had asked if I had been I foster care previously I said yes which was from ages 4-7 I'm worried as apparently I might be flagged to social services now even though I'm 28 now! I'm also concerned about my father in law who hasn't had any convictions but was previously investigated for being innapropiate with a 12 year old girl,taking photos of underage women amongst other things should I mention this to my midwife and could this affect my baby even though he hasn't been convicted and he will never be left unsupervised ever with our baby

Uh. He shouldnt be around your baby at all. That needs investigating

Underage women? You mean children. Ugh.

I’d be more concerned about your paedo FIL than whether social services might want to offer you some extra support as you’ve been in foster care at some point.

You cannot let you disgusting FIL anywhere near your children.

That you don’t see this is a very good reason for social services to be all over you.

Eughhh, how can you want or allow FIL to have any access to your baby, let alone unsupervised??

You need advice? This should be a no brainer.

FIL should never be around you or baby EVER! With charges like that he should be permanently locked up, people like that are dangerous and devious.

The foster care side is probably not what they are looking into and they ask everyone about being involved in social services so not just you.
These questions are asked to see if you might benefit from additional assistance after baby is born (as in PPD, which can be increased if you have had childhood trauma) and not to take the baby away.