Iv been with my partner 6-7 years. When we got together he had a non molestation order against his ex wife who had been doing domestic violence towards him she had been arrested many times for attacking him and injuring him. The order was in place for 4 years it had been in place 18 months when I met my partner. He has 1 child with her who is 18 so they don’t speak as he just talks direct to his child who is not living with the mother anyways she’s off and uni. He still has to pay maintenance as she’s in education but he’s always paid anyways and always will. He recently got a new job and it’s 15 miles from his ex wife’s home. She lives with her 6 young children to 4 different men that she’s had over the 8 year breakup from her husband. She’s not with any of the men. One of her family members seen Her ex at his work place and must have told her where he’s working now my partner keeps seeing her either sat outside or walking past with her double pram and row of kids behind. He’s told his work place about her and how he had the order against her. 4 times since last week he’s seen her sat outside I guess in the hope of her catching him coming out. He knows what ever she had to say wouldn’t be nice and would be a mouthful of abuse. If she needed to contact him they use a website to contact each other which was arranged in court but it’s only to be used to speak of his child. Message’s can be not deleted or edited. So if she was to send a nasty message on there she couldn’t remove it after and I guess if she was reported would get into trouble.
why would she be stalking him again? Can a woman stalk someone because she hates them? I’m thinking she still has feelings…. My parents says no she just wants to cause trouble. So I don’t know what to think?
he plans on going to the police if he sees her again outside of his work place.