I’m a part of a large writer’s group and a few of us are querying atm. Went for drinks with some of them last night and one of them had gotten a few really positive responses from agents - a meeting and requests for full ms. We celebrated but later on she told a couple of us that she couldn’t bear the waiting and radio silence so she’d emailed all her queries and lied about getting a request for full ms in order to jockey the agents along. She was a little guilty about it but it obviously worked for her. I’ve read bits of her novel and I think it’s good!
It’s not something I’d do (even though like most in this game, I’d prefer a negative response to no response) and I’m judging her a bit now. 🫤 It surprised me I guess! Wondering if that’s fair or if it’s just a case of ‘don’t hate the player, hate the game …’ 😂