Hi,
I was hoping any Belfast/NI parents could help out with an issue I’m having.
Currently living in Edinburgh with DH and 2 sons 5/10, we are planning on moving to Belfast in the next few months.
Thought it would be a fairly straightforward transfer for my older boy as I thought the Scottish/NI school systems were fairly aligned, but it turns out that due to him having an April birthday he would actually be due to start high school this year as opposed to P7 if we stayed in Scotland.
This leaves me with a bit of a dilemma, my heart says it’s the right thing to keep him in primary for a year, it would allow him to settle without the high school pressure, not skip a full year of education and if I’m honest the NI School system is ahead of the Scottish system in most metrics anyway so I don’t see too much of an issue (e.g he is unlikely to be sitting there bored or repeating work).
Think this should be possible but I wondered how common it is for kids to defer here, in Scotland it’s extremely common for this to happen, there are 5 kids in his class of 30 that should be in the year above.
I know that the legislation wasn’t introduced here until later so wondered how likely it is that he’ll be the only one in his age group older (however slightly) than the rest?
Another thing is sports, he is currently playing at regional/academy level in sport and would be keen to continue that at a school here, he actually plays up an age grade at the moment so would be concerned that he would be dropping a couple of levels to play at school.
Realise this will differ by school but has anyone had any experience of a situation where pupils are able to play sport a year or two above their peer group, or is it completely rigid?
Realise all this could change as being good at sport at 11 doesn’t mean you’ll be in front of the pack at 15, but nonetheless it’s really important to him and we’re already causing him enough upheaval.
Thanks for all your help