I’d say Do it, but not necessarily in Dublin!
A rural village school with smaller class sizes might be better?
I moved here with DS aged 5 after he’d completed 2 terms of Reception in an English state school. I knew he was ‘different’ but the school weren’t interested and said he was within the normal range of behaviours.
His English village school was quite large with 2 classes of 30+ kids for each year.
When we moved to a rural coastal area here in Ireland, the village Primary had 1 classroom for Junior & Senior infants and a couple of mixed year classrooms up to 6th class which was just his year, so around 12 children in his class.
It made it a lot easier for him to make friends as there were only 5 other boys in his year and being rural, they tended to stick together.
DS has since been diagnosed as autistic whilst in secondary school and has dyspraxia. He is academically extremely able and was reading independently before he was 5yrs old.
Because he was very good at academics, the primary school didn’t put him forward for testing as their budget could only cover 1 or 2 children a year so they prioritised the children who are really struggling with the basics. I think that’s the right decision, to be honest.
DS is doing Irish at higher level in secondary (doesn’t like the way it’s taught compared to the curriculum for modern languages) and neither myself or DH have any knowledge of the Irish language at all, but you could possibly apply for an exemption?
However, DS’s poor co-ordination from dyspraxia held him back from joining in any (GAA) sports which are massively popular around here. They have local coaches coming into school one day a week.
Sadly, there’s not much available after school for kids who aren’t sporty!
No Scouts or other similar clubs in this area.
His Primary teachers were all nurturing and very supportive and the 3rd class teacher brought in a No Ball Games rule for playtimes on Tuesday and Thursday so the children played running and tag type games which DS could join in with. He hadn’t even been diagnosed as dyspraxic at that point so her insight was amazing!
No system is perfect but I know my DS had a better start over here than if he’d stayed in England.