I have 2 here at the moment. One has dyslexia but not enough for exemptions and she is managing very well and doesn't need support. So I cant answer if they are good in that area. Havent heard any complaints from parents who I loosely know that do have kids.
Its very inclusive and no one bats an eyelid at having an SNA with them etc. Although its not overrun. Its mixed ability classes then the core subjects in 2nd year go higher or lower. Older one is doing very well academically. Younger one has just started. Discipline is good. Uniform as mentioned up thread up finishes after 3rd year. Great for sensory as is just a tshirt, hoodie and anything within reason on your bottom half.
There is no Spanish only French and German. Loads of non sport activities. Drama, tons of lunchtime clubs, chess, dungeons and dragons, debating, all sorts. They have swimming slots which my younger goes to.
We were undecided between there and Wesley but like you the fees so we decided no fees and pump money into grinds instead as they are average students. I went to private school and needed grinds. But this was our reasoning.
Loads of kids from around the area now but a good few from Bray, Wicklow, city centre, all over really. The bus routes from Bray and Wicklow have recently changed so check your area to make sure its easy.
Overall very happy but I get how tough the decision is. You never know if grass is greener! Weigh up the travel time for him, I think that's important