An interesting question.
My grandfather was not involved in the rising, but could recall the call going out for Easter Sunday in Dublin. He told of people getting ready to travel from the country to Dublin, and then the sense of anti-climax when it was called off.
He would have talked about how people then didn't travel to Dublin the following day, due to the confusion on Sunday.
His brother was heavily involved in the War of Independence and the Black and Tans were involved in some horrific atrocities locally (effectively, lynching members of local families).
People are still aware of the horrific reprisals visited by the Auxillaries, but they deliberately dont talk about it, as it would have inflamed feelings particularly during the "Troubles".
My grandmother had her native Irish smacked out of her at school, and hid IRA members in the War of Independence. But both DGM and DGF talked about the British efforts in WW2 with admiration.
So, my views of "the British" was even handed, because of the efforts of many Irish people, to move on.
I deeply admired the actions of the Queen when she visited, and bent her head at the Garden of Remembrance. But I had an absolute surge of anger for about a week after reading "The Graves are Walking" (about the Famine).
I've worked in England and have great friends there. But, the police were called to attend a Marks and Spencer where I was shopping, and I was questioned, because of my accent. I heard umpteen versions of "stupid Paddy Irish" jokes; was referred to as a "peasant" and been over-supervised at work, as the assumption was that I was slacking off (no evidence, just prejudice). I was encouraged to go for promotion early in my career there.
The "Troubles"/IRA is quite reductive- you cannot refer to the Civil War in N.I. without also referring to Loyalists/UDA/UVF but that side of the conflict is omitted in British accounts.
People like John Hume and the Loyalist paramilitary man (whose name escapes me right now) should be canonised for their work on the peace process.
How do I feel about Irish independence- I dont really understand that question, unless it's aimed at people living In Northern Ireland. An independent Irish state is just part of who I am, it's not beholden to any other state's recognition.
Re-unification of Northern Ireland with the Republic- that's something that would need a lot of consideration and thought and I cant see it happening in the next 10 years (but then, who would have foreseen Brexit or Covid, so, who knows?)