Hi everyone,
I am looking for some advice/encouragement really!
My Italian husband and I always said we'd move to Ireland 'when we had the kids' and when our second baby was born last June we decided to start thinking about the move. First baby turns 3 soon and I want to be settled before he starts school. My parents have a second property next door to their house that we were supposed to use until we find our feet but my sister and her husband back from Oz ( since last year) have decided they need it for longer so we are now in a different situation
I work as a secondary school teacher in London and my husband is self employed. I am still on mat leave but have resigned. I have been applying to schools in Galway city where we would like to live but from all accounts it will take a miracle for me to actually get a job there. My husband is also 'starting from scratch' looking for roles anywhere around Galway too (he works in logisitics) and it's proving tough. Property-wise, I don't think we will be eligible for a mortgage for at least 6 months. (My salary may not even be taken into account as a teacher because it takes 2 years to be 'perminant' right?!). My husband is now suggesting that if we don't find jobs in the mext 3/4 weeks we should hold off until next year. Part of me agrees as I can easily find a well-paid job here, he can continue doing what he does and we know where we're at here. The other part of me thinks we are post-poning the inevitable. We should just plough on now. I guess the idea of staying at my parents house in the midlands while we don't have work and try to continue some sort of normal life for the boys whilst cooped up together seems so grim :-( We could give it a few months more here and save like crazy to apply for an overseas (35% deposit) mortgage and just buy a property in our ideal location (knocknacarra/salthill) and then just hope to find work closeby??
And breathe. Major apologies for my ramble. I would so so appreciate from anyone who's been in/is in a similar boat and what they decided to do.
I hope everyone is keeping safe xx