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Any recommendations for a secondary school in South Dublin for a 'tricky' boy?

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GrowlLikeMargeSimpson · 04/04/2018 16:15

I've name changed because there is likely to be a bit of identifying detail in this.

DS is a fantastic sportsman and athlete, and pretty much rubbish at everything else school related. He's currently in 1st year of my old secondary school. They are generally very helpful with him, but he is disruptive and is probably going to be asked to leave at the end of the summer term (meeting with the head in the next week or two to discuss). He has autism but isn't a usual presentation of it, he's very extrovert, loud, has a low boredom threshold, poor impulse control and is easily distracted. The ways in which is autism presents more typically are being very literal and not getting the gist of what's going on, which means he's quite often out of step or doing the wrong thing because he's misunderstood the instructions.

He did get into Newpark, which I know can be better for less academic kids, but we turned down the place as we felt that it wouldn't have enough structure for him and he would run wild. He needs quite a bit of supervision as his judgement about acceptable behaviour is really bad and (as I said above) he has very little impulse control. I doubt we would get a place in Newpark for next year anyway as they were hugely oversubscribed for first year.

Any thoughts? I don't mind about fee-paying or not, but I would like somewhere that will be offering PE for Leaving Cert (which is current school will be doing) if at all possible.

TIA

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GrainneWail · 10/06/2018 02:09

Glad you've got a plan. Fingers crossed it all works out for him.

Rainallnight · 11/04/2026 14:25

Hi @GrowlLikeMargeSimpson I was wondering how your DS got on? I’m moving back to Ireland with two DC who sound like yours! (One sporty, one not)

GrowlLikeMargeSimpson · 11/04/2026 14:54

He's a very unfocused, drifty young adult now. He ended up leaving Cabinteely CS after inter cert (didn't sit an exam because of covid but passed everything). Cabinteely had been hugely helpful with him and put a lot of effort into him which I was quite impressed with, DS less impressed because he didn't get away with much. He then went to YouthReach and did whatever is the equivalent of leaving cert applied. He did a one year college course, but hasn't used the qualification since.

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KittytheHare · 04/05/2026 13:07

Hi Op, I just came across this thread now. I’m wondering if your Ds has ever been assessed for ADHD? I have a 23 yo Ds who sounds quite similar to yours, but his diagnosis is AuDHD. The reason I thought it might be worth considering is the medication for the ADHD part has been incredibly effective in helping him regulate emotions and focus.

GrowlLikeMargeSimpson · 04/05/2026 13:21

KittytheHare · 04/05/2026 13:07

Hi Op, I just came across this thread now. I’m wondering if your Ds has ever been assessed for ADHD? I have a 23 yo Ds who sounds quite similar to yours, but his diagnosis is AuDHD. The reason I thought it might be worth considering is the medication for the ADHD part has been incredibly effective in helping him regulate emotions and focus.

Yes, he was diagnosed with autism first and then ADHD when he was about 10. He always struggled with the medication and now refuses to take it because it makes him feel weird.

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KittytheHare · 04/05/2026 13:31

Ah ok, it’s a tricky diagnosis.

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