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How is everybody else coping with the new increases?

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cavewoman2026 · 21/10/2026 19:44

Hiya,

single mum here, working full time but barely surviving. Got two young children. I shop for food via Lidl, clothes are from Vinted, make the most of parks and libraries but I’ve been getting the feeling lately if not being able to carry on. Everything is so expensive and I don’t even have a car or go on holiday. I’m so tired. I get help towards housing but that’s about it. I look around me and everyone seems to be going on skiing holidays, have massive houses etc (Happy for them of course)

How is everybody else coping? How do you feel with the increases in energy and food prices? Council tax is going up too. It’s all so depressing.

taking walks in nature and releasing everything is man made and temporary makes me feel better for a short while.

OP posts:
StockingsByTheFire · Yesterday 20:13

cavewoman2026 · Yesterday 19:36

I get some help for housing but it has not increased with my yearly rent increase. Their father pays minimal child allowance. I earn minimal wages but it’s the only job I can do as it works around the same time as their school hours. I’ve done all the budgeting and it’s bleak. There is no more I can cut. I am not surprised at the collapsing fertility rates in this country, if I knew what I know now (and I love my children than life itself) I wouldn’t have had them or delayed having children.

You need to up your hours. You'll get 85% of your childcare paid so you can definitely improve your income. You can use £100 a week of wrap-around care and it only costs you £15.

Rainbow1901 · Yesterday 21:44

cavewoman2026 · Yesterday 19:36

I get some help for housing but it has not increased with my yearly rent increase. Their father pays minimal child allowance. I earn minimal wages but it’s the only job I can do as it works around the same time as their school hours. I’ve done all the budgeting and it’s bleak. There is no more I can cut. I am not surprised at the collapsing fertility rates in this country, if I knew what I know now (and I love my children than life itself) I wouldn’t have had them or delayed having children.

Have you applied to your local council for Crisis and Hardship funds? It won't hurt to apply and may give you a little support.

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