ExDH and I divorced in December. We share the same house (but live separately) and children are at uni. It's amicable.
We haven't got tound to making our joint account single yet as we earn similar amounts and split all bills. As part of our divorce agreement we cannot sell the house until the children finish uni, nor do we want to (we want the children to have a base at least). Our mortgage is cheaper than both of us renting and neither of us could afford to buy anywhere with the sale of the house anyway as we still owe a bit. In short, it works financially for us both to live there.
I have just gound out I'm losing my long term job and may need to claim benefits in the interim until I can find another job (I"m in my 50s and applying but finding this hard atm) I understand this is possible when divorced but you need separate bank accounts and to show you live separately, separate lives etc. However, how the hell would ypu be able to show joint bills like the mortgage and council tax are divided?
Would it be best to:
A) retain a joint bank account for all bills with both of us paying half inyo this, though it is still a joint account which benefit people might not like?
B) Divide bills between solo accounts? One person has 4 bills amounting to ££ the other has an equal amount
C) one person converts joint account to dolo, retains all bills and the other pays them a monthly standing order for half?
Also, how soon after leaving my job would it take for benefits to be approved/come through?