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Any info on financial assistance for single parents?

28 replies

Mariemumlife · 04/09/2025 08:58

Hi all. Really embarrassed to be writing this.
I left my abusive partner 2 weeks before my baby was born, I was in a hostel but found a place to live. I’m on maternity leave and getting UC top up but I’m really struggling financially. Im managing to just about cover my rent, electric, car insurance etc. and I have a budget and buy one meal in bulk to cook at home and try to make it last all week but lately I’m eating whatever my 7 month old doesn’t finish off her plate. I found myself nearly crying in Aldi this morning using pennies to buy my daughter formula and wipes. Her dad rarely bothers to pay any maintenance and is self employed so lies about his income so it’s no help going through CMS. I’ve applied for DAF but wondering if there’s anything else that I can do to help?
thanks

OP posts:
Augustus40 · 23/10/2025 04:47

There is a hardship fund for water rates. Look them up. In the pandemic I had a third of the bill slashed. You just need to show proof you are struggling.

Catsknowbest · 23/10/2025 05:09

Sorejaws · 04/09/2025 09:26

Good start.

housing benefit?

If rent is payable it will be in the housing costs element of UC. Housing benefit has been phased out for most unless they are over SPA or in specified accommodation.

Catsknowbest · 23/10/2025 05:11

Mariemumlife · 04/09/2025 09:44

Yeah, I get it but my council has a local housing allowance and my house is £200 over that. That’s included in the £900 they give me :)

You might be able to apply for a discretionary housing payment to help with the top up due to your circumstances, there is criteria to meet, and it isn't always granted but speak to your local citizens advice.

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