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Universal credit issue

94 replies

jaggyjaggy · 25/04/2025 15:24

Can anyone help please.

Split up from my husband recently, its amicable and neither of us can afford to move out (believe me that is preferable!) we have two kids, 3 and 7. We both work but we have always claimed a UC top up.

So after finally deciding to split we notified UC and our old claim turned into my husbands own single claim and I had to make a fresh single claim of my own. We put a child on each of our claims as this seemed fairest way, as I tend to do most stuff for the 3yo and he does more for the 7yo.

We sent all evidence UC asked for, tenancy agreement showing we pay half rent each etc. Was supposed to receive a payment on 14th april for around £1350 (rent is covered, childcare, standard allowance, child allowance) but instead received £950. Ex has said he received nothing.

We have tried calling, leaving messages but no one will help they just say “under review please wait”

Then last week received a notification to say my claim has been put on hold but no mention of why or what I need to do or any details. Since then all my messages have been ignored.

Yesterday I called to escalate this and was told it would be referred to a case manager who would be in touch before 6pm today (friday) nothing as yet.

Am I being unreasonable here? I refuse to believe this is an unusual situation with housing crisis that we need to stay in the same property for a few months.

I am extremely stressed out and I am running low on food and I haven’t even paid my rent yet which is due on Monday!

Any help much appreciated.

OP posts:
Pikablue · 26/04/2025 08:23

IVFmumoftwo · 26/04/2025 08:07

TA so term time but works five days a week. It is possible to work five days a week minimum wage and get roughly that though. I have calculated what I would earn if it I worked five days a week and it is about the same (mine wage).

Edited

Someone working full time on min wage will take home £1,703.11 after tax, assuming a standard working week of 37.5 hours (obviously a bit more if they work a 40 hour week which is also common).

anon2423 · 26/04/2025 08:47

jaggyjaggy · 25/04/2025 16:20

Yes that's what it is I think. The march payment was due on 14th April and arrived on time minus housing and childcare costs - the £950. The next payment is due on 14th may but I haven't received the right amount from march which is why I am stressing.
Its the equivalent to having been paid £500 of your employment wages and expected just to sit tight and hope they decide to give it to you at some point.

I didn't chose to claim UC. Check your privilege.

Umm… you literally did though? YOU DECIDED to make a UC claim - no one forced you 🤷🏻‍♀️ Check your own privilege cause you are so entitled it’s painful.

There’s a process they need to go through to make sure you are eligible for what you are claiming. If you’d left it all alone until you were physically separated you’d be fine. Why have you changed it? Do you think you’ll get more as two individuals with one child each? You’d get more child benefit I suppose… if it increases your payments of course they have to look into it to stop benefit fraud?

anon2423 · 26/04/2025 08:51

jaggyjaggy · 25/04/2025 17:24

"free money"

You realise we pay tax too right?

Right but you take out WAY MORE than you put in? How can neither of you be earning full time wages at min wage and be entitled to so much? It’s baffling that you don’t have to work full time because you get so much handed to you.

Neetra30 · 26/04/2025 09:02

DancefloorAcrobatics · 26/04/2025 07:57

@jaggyjaggy one of you need to concentrate on moving out with their child to make it very clear that you are separated and being a single parent each.

You need to have a look at your business as it's currently not viable to support you as per NMW.

I would give the DWP the 5 weeks before asking for anything as they have paid you. Your claim is definitely in the system and has been recognised. So no need to worry, they will check and verify in this time and contact if they need more information.

At the moment it looks very dodgy: 2 single adults living under the same roof after previously claiming as a couple.

Each is claiming for one child.

None has worked enough to make NMW in full time employment.

Of course you are going to be investigated.

As others have already said, be prepared to demonstrate that you are living seperate lives financially, down to the last penny!

And these adults are married but supposedly single now and STILL living together as a family.

Of course this will flag up an investigation with DWP

THATbasicgirl · 26/04/2025 09:13

I am currently living in the same house as ex-p

I receive uc, he doesnt

Uc were really good with me when I called for advice

We had seperated, own the house jointly, the relationship was tbh financially abusive. He pays for nothing except things for himself. Every bill is in my name. I fully expected them to want all kinds of proof. But they were actuallu really decent and told me to just claim as single

I did so with no issues. But yes it took 5 weeks to recieve my first payment of the single claim

herbalteabag · 26/04/2025 09:14

It could be see as dodgy, particularly claiming for one child each. The husband wouldn't be entitled to claim anything except perhaps rent without the child on the claim. And both claiming for a first child results in a higher child element than both children on one claim. Are the children really going to live separately in the future?

GraveAndQuiet · 26/04/2025 09:39

Yes @herbalteabagthats what I was wondering. When the parents physically split in a few months time, are they really going to have the children split, one living with each parent?
If not, then I don't think it's fair to claim 2 lots of child benefit now. That's the kind of thing I would be scrutinising if i was assessing this claim.

Blondeshavemorefun · 26/04/2025 09:57

jaggyjaggy · 25/04/2025 16:34

Your name says it all but let me explain it to you.

Ex DH wages - £1350
My wages (self employed) - £850
Childcare costs - £175
Rent - £850

UC entitlement, between £1050-1300 monthly (depending on my wages as they fluctuate)

Why is ex on such a low wage - he’s not even earning nmw

or is he deliberately keeping wages low to get that extra (I know several people who do this)

as a single parent with a child at primary school - I have to earn just under £1400 a month - which is I think 30hrs nmw

if I don’t earn this , uc still put I have earnt this

assuming your ex was capable to work full time I don’t get why he was on a lower wage then me

and you get huge top ups - which I know is mainly rent but as another poster said - you get more in uc then they earn a month

the system is screwed. I have found this

StMarie4me · 26/04/2025 10:02

jaggyjaggy · 25/04/2025 15:42

That's all well and good in theory but we are looking at at least 3 months together here until we are able to move. Find me a landlord or letting agent that will rent to a single mother claiming UC without a deposit? 🧐

So you want the taxpayers to pay you more as a family so that you can save up a deposit for a rented house? When your circumstances haven’t changed, (all the same people under all the same roof), you think you should get extra money because you’ve decided to ‘split up’?
What?
Well that’s all well and good in theory, but why should they?
You must look so suspicious to the UC people, as you do here.

Sofiewoo · 26/04/2025 10:06

IVFmumoftwo · 26/04/2025 08:07

TA so term time but works five days a week. It is possible to work five days a week minimum wage and get roughly that though. I have calculated what I would earn if it I worked five days a week and it is about the same (mine wage).

Edited

”full time” is not the number of days but the number of hours.

Bromptotoo · 26/04/2025 10:10

gamerchick · 25/04/2025 15:28

Really you should have waited until you have physically separated before upsetting the apple cart. Anyone could start to claim separately while living in the same house.

I'd probably focus on one of you moving out.

That's not right.

If you are under the same roof but can show you're two households then you can claim as two singles.

Lionsniffer · 26/04/2025 10:13

You are living as a couple in their eyes even if you emotionally can't stand each other. When you think about it if they believed you then they would have to believe everyone who said they weren't a couple while living together.

Sorry I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but it's how they'll see it

Crikeyalmighty · 26/04/2025 10:19

@Upsetbetty I agree- and by the way I’m a centre left voter -sorry OP but cases like this need to be investigated - an acquaintance of mine a few years ago worked out they would be £480 a month better off saying they were separated - they got investigated in detail - turns out if living together still it’s not a shoe in despite what ‘mates’ had said. . In the end they abandoned the singular claims , ended up splitting anyway and didn’t change anything till in separate places - that’s what you should do if it’s amicable

Bromptotoo · 26/04/2025 10:26

Lionsniffer · 26/04/2025 10:13

You are living as a couple in their eyes even if you emotionally can't stand each other. When you think about it if they believed you then they would have to believe everyone who said they weren't a couple while living together.

Sorry I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but it's how they'll see it

No, No, NO!!!!

The guidance is here:

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a7575a740f0b6397f35e96f/adme4.pdf

Provided you can show two households then separated couples under the same roof can, and often do, have single claims to UC.

Whether, when the co-parent children, the OP/Ex can show two households may involve a bit of legwork.

If, as I understand it, one of them is a TA then they probably get paid term time only but in 12 installments thus seeming to be on less than NLW.

Lionsniffer · 26/04/2025 10:32

Bromptotoo · 26/04/2025 10:26

No, No, NO!!!!

The guidance is here:

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a7575a740f0b6397f35e96f/adme4.pdf

Provided you can show two households then separated couples under the same roof can, and often do, have single claims to UC.

Whether, when the co-parent children, the OP/Ex can show two households may involve a bit of legwork.

If, as I understand it, one of them is a TA then they probably get paid term time only but in 12 installments thus seeming to be on less than NLW.

Sure but you can't be too shocked that they don't believe her straight away. Otherwise anyone could just say that for extra money

Widowerwouldyou · 26/04/2025 10:34

I had no idea it is so easy to get free money/ really is shocking how people play the system.

Bromptotoo · 26/04/2025 10:36

Lionsniffer · 26/04/2025 10:32

Sure but you can't be too shocked that they don't believe her straight away. Otherwise anyone could just say that for extra money

I would expect it to go to a Decision Maker (DM). The DM may want more evidence that they have so far to confirm OP/Ex are sufficiently separate to be two households. As I said, co-parenting can make that a difficult gig.

My point is that it's explicitly provided for in the UC Regs and Advice for Decision Makers.

Bromptotoo · 26/04/2025 10:39

Widowerwouldyou · 26/04/2025 10:34

I had no idea it is so easy to get free money/ really is shocking how people play the system.

As somebody seeing this stuff day in, day out it's not that unusual.

Trying to get a private let on low earnings is incredibly difficult, more so in housing cost hotspots like SE England. Choice is to put up with living under the same roof or sofa surf.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 26/04/2025 11:30

Widowerwouldyou · 26/04/2025 10:34

I had no idea it is so easy to get free money/ really is shocking how people play the system.

Oh yes, it's really easy to get "free money" and live in poverty. I don't know whether the OP is trying to play the system or not, so I'll leave that to the DWP (who aren't exactly easy-going despite what people here might think), and I do appreciate that some people might have less household income that the OP (because their circumstances are different - otherwise they too would be able to claim), but it is estimated that 22% of UK households live in relative poverty after housing costs, 18% in absolute poverty (that's around 12 million people, about 4.5 million of whom are children).

I would prefer that a few people get to "skate the rules" (and to be clear, I do not mean commit outright fraud) if it means that fewer people live in absolute poverty - and that includes those on NMW who might also have a small amount of cash in hand from time to time that they "forget" to declare. It's small potatoes compared to over £5 billion tax evasion (which, interestingly HMRC attribute lots of that to the hard-working small businesses that everyone is so fond of using as an example of work ethic);VAT evasion (nearly £8 billion); and tax avoidance (about £2 billion) which is the rich persons version of "skating the rules".

And to be clear, I am no middle of the road leftie - I am far left, and if given my way I would put every single person capable of work and not in work into work (there is plenty that needs doing that isn't done) on the NMW, and tell them if they don't like it they can get a better job like others have to. I would reserve benefits at a much higher level for those who genuinely cannot work. But since I am not in charge, the world is as it is - benefits are not "free money", they are a passport to poverty, ill health and early death.

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