We own this house and have a mortgage of like £900 a month husband owned before meeting me
We own a flat as well or my husband had it before me if it makes a difference renter and on an interest only mortgage , £700 pm
We pay nursery £500 pm but I think that will go now my daughter is 3 this month
I claim child benefit for two of my three children
We had a household income circa 130k, but we also had some other avenues including shares but they are now sold
last year mostly earned by my husband, I was actually paid below minimum wage at 24k
So now I am written off disabled and totally fucked we have a problem in that my husband is running the show and now also trying to work
My mental health is a fucking shit show , I had a panic attack and ripped some of my hair out yesterday and I was just not able to be left, it has knocked me sideways
The only thing I do is baking but has to be from bed a lot and haven't been able to enjoy lately due to my health.
So now I don't know what to do, we had this simmilar problem during covid and we did get some uc but that was because my husband wasn't able to work as his business depended on entering homes and contact with people ..
We never got that grant thing or the loans we were worried about future implications
I want to move house next year so I don't want to sort of financially retire my husband so that we could claim benefits but I feel like I have slipped through the cracks
Genuinely there's been in excess of 100k in tax paid by our business, our earnings in the last 5 years I would say.