I'm in
Been self employed for 2.5 years and haven't paid into my pension yet.
We have some small house debts like sofa fridge that kind of thing that collectively add up to a few hundred a month that I want to clear this year and not add anymore.
The next five months will be tight as in every bill for the house and business will be paid but there won't be much wiggle room for extras and when I look at what we spend on stupid extras I'm shocked.
I over hauled our food budget recently and we are managing to save £50-£70 a week by shopping more savvy and not taking the tween with us when we go.
I've cancelled £50 worth of subscriptions for stuff I really don't need on my phone this week and was shocked when I saw the amount.
My dh car has just gone wrong but he's not the best at saving money and has no self control when it comes to Amazon etc and I've told him I can't afford to help him again as I'm shouldering a huge amount of household bills compared to him as I earn more so he really needs to knuckle down.
We work opposite hours so he's using my car but I've pointed out I pay a lot of money for my car per month that I work for and it's the time he takes it that I need a car for kids lifts,family things etc so he's got to pull his finger out massively.
I'm also going to tell my adult dc bank of mum is closed now as between the two adult dc in just this last year they have had over £5000 out of me between them.
I never have an issue helping them but I do when it's not offered back or I'm working double the hours they are to cover them.
We have a family chat coming up
That's where most of my spare money goes lately.
I need to get tough with them and myself.