Hello all, and welcome to new joiners. (I'm quite new, too, don't mean to sound grand with the 'new joiners' bit!)
DS back to university city today, saving a few quid on the cheaper Thursday railfares. Taking with him a jar of peanut butter, packet of gruyere and some sausage rolls, from our cupboard, as these are things he has noticed are expensive, now that he is watching his money carefully. Proud frugal mama face! He will get paid next Friday, so will finally see some serious inroads into his overdraft, and plans to contact the bank and limit the facility to where he lands post-payment, so he's not tempted to dig into it again. TBH, if this overdraft is the worst financial mistake he ever makes, he'll be OK in life! However, I am hoping (and working actively towards, and cajoling around) that he won't have to spend too long getting financial decisions wrong before getting them right, as I did!
£40 on a takeaway last night, which was a nice treat from DH, and probably one we all needed. Having an adult child living away from home, and struggling, is not easy. I try and be chilled, and think, 'life will teach these lessons, you don't have to!' but I'm afraid I can't walk that walk, and feelings run high.