Have you taken any of the classes and watched the videos? They are the most helpful things.
There is also a vlogger called Nick True who has a series on YNAB which I know loads of people find helpful - he walks you through things step by step:
yes I mean changing the budgeted amounts to zero for those items that have already been budgeted for and also paid for, else you have money still budgeted for stuff you have already dealt with , which seems to be against the "rule" of thinking about what your money has to do before you next get paid
I think you are misunderstanding what the line "budgeted" means.
In YNAB, it doesn't mean the money is still there to be spent. The "budgeted" column is just how much you planned to spend, how much you added to that category in the month.
There are 3 columns for each category.
Budgeted: how much money you ADDED to the category this calendar month.
Activity: how much money you SPENT from the category this calendar month.
Available: how much money you HAVE to spend in the category RIGHT NOW.
So it's like why would I still have the budgeted amounts around when it's sorted but if I put zero it tells me they are underfunded - when they might actually have been incurred and paid for ( activity column indicates this
You're trying to make "budgeted" mean and do something different to how the software is set up.
The "budgeted" line isn't actually that interesting or helpful to you during the month. It's just the name for the column where you add money to the category.
What is important is the "available" column - that's what tells you what money you "still have around".
I am looking for a true picture towards end of months
So at the end of the month, the "activity" column shows you how much you have spent. That's the real data you need.