I've crept back here to confess with my tail between my legs.....
Good news is friend didn't turn up so didn't go to coffee shop. Bad news is everything else
ballet stuff £15.50
Co-op for stuff for dinner £13.75 but I couldn't get ev.terything I needed
Asda £17.50 
then stupid idiot that I am went out for wine to the off licence and somehow spent £27 on 4 bottles of wine
Total £73.75 and I'm not even sure how.
£10 was on meat
£3 on fruit juice
£2.50 on pringles
Also got hummus, pitta breads, olives and various other bits.
The good news is there are loads of left overs which should probably do for 3-4 meals if I'm careful. We've still got 3 bottles left over as some wine was bought by visitors. Nine people were fed a 3 course meal with wine, everyone was happy and it was a lovely relaxed evening. I keep reminding myself that the meal was actually only about £6.50 a head including wine. Actually it was less than that as a few of the things in Asda were not for the meal.
That brings the running total to the month to a shocking £178.11. Average £22.26 a day. Tomorrow needs to an NSD.
Oh dear I'm not very good at this am I? Still at least I've got 3 bottles of wine to drown my sorrows in!!