Minimalist good luck with keeping the food shopping to your ideal budget - how many are you shopping for? I wonder if food prices are higher here, there is no way I could feed our family of 5 on €50 - I do have to do all 3 meals a day, every day, as I buy DH's packed lunch supplies and the kids are all home for lunch (school finishes at lunch time) and need to take "Brotzeit" - which is a snack box usually pretty much another packed lunch, esp for DS1 who eats more than DH does - for morning break. Even budgeting, Aldi only shopping, meal planning and not including much in the way of luxuries (aside from a lot of fruit) I spend €100 over all on groceries (all the food plus cleaning products and toiletries) a week, and if I don't keep a tight reign it is easy to spend €150 all in, once the top ups of fruit, yoghurt, and fresh bread are added in :(
Fluffy today's football match is going to be a 120km round trip, and one or other of my older kids have a match or tournament every weekend - some weekends both do. Kindergarten is an 8km 'round trip (16km over all to take, go home, go to fetch, come home), though we sometimes cycle it is hard atm as the youngest is at an in-between age, hates the trailer and can throw a 30 minute tantrum and give himself a sore throat, but to get there on his running bike takes over an hour, and he can't make it home again so has to be put in the trailer, and when I go back I have to take the car to pick up DS1's bike and put it in the boot, or deal with DS2 tantruming as he won't make the journey under his own power by lunch time, when he's tired...
Nearest supermarket is 8km away, 16km there and back, but its a small, expensive one and Aldi is a little bit further.
Everything the kids do, other than just play out with their friends locally or walk the dog with me, both of which we do daily, involves travelling at least an 8km 'round trip both to take and to fetch, and every week there is a necessity to do at least one longer trip of at least an hour's drive each way.
Sometimes cycling is an option, but not in winter anyway - we usually have months on end of minus degree temperatures and ice and snow on the ground.
Driving is a necessary evil here, and cars take a huge chunk out of the budget. However if we were to move into the nearest city, where public transport would make no or just one car manageable, we would pay at the very least 3 times the rent we pay here even if we downsized to a 3 bed flat in a not very nice area, where here we have a 4 bed house over 4 floors! (Nearest city is the most expensive place to live in Germany
although very nice...)