Hi all. The family problem has slightly resolved itself as I have been talking it over with a few people, which is a relief. DS2 is somewhat better, although still has a long way to go. He played happily for a total of some 2 hours today & spent the rest either whining gently or snuggling up on my lap, with a long nap at lunchtime 
Yesterday I spent around £60 on diesel from Sainsbury & DH topped up our electric meter with £10. I am ringing British Gas for a second time tomorrow to get this switched over to bill payment, then I can shop around for the best deal on price comparison sites.
Today has been an NSD, also a small spending victory. In July, DH & I purchased an incomplete toilet set (no cistern & no seat, but did include taps & basin which are expensive) for £75 down from £250 from B&Q. Nearly 2 months & many phone calls & visits later, it transpires they cannot supply us with the separate cistern which we ordered on that day in their store. Had we thought this, we would not have bought the set, even at such a discount. So, after a lot wrangling, when they offered us a chance to re-purchase a complete set for twice the price
, we finally came away with the complete set, including toilet seat which we would have had to purchase separately, for no extra money. Feel quite pleased with that 
I imagine this week will be pretty non-spendy, as I will be mainly spending it nursing poor DS2 back to health 
Well done to those being frugal & keep going to those who haven't quite managed what they wanted - it happens to us all!