I budget so that the money from my wages goes into my must pay bills each month, and then a few other accounts for other money - I like to keep things in apart, otherwise I don't know how much money I have to spend on what and that is when I over spend and things go wrong for me.
So I list all my monthly bills that I must pay without fail
Car tax
council tax
water bill
fuel for house
house insurance
life insurance
gym membership
tv licence
mortgage
car service
Work out how much each bill is per year, then add the total up and divide by 12 ** as water is paid here 8 months and council tax 10 months.
So say the total for each month is 725, that goes into the bills account each month on the 1st - then the bills are paid by standing order or direct debit from that account.
Then I work out how much school trips and sporting activities cost per year and again divide by 12 and put that in a different account - the money is about 25 per month over the whole year, so that goes in on the 1st of the month.
Then Christmas and birthdays - work out how many birthdays in the year, then total up that and how much is required for presents for christmas - again put this away on the first of the month in a different account - usually a monthly saver which gets a bit of interest.
I have one more savings pot and this is for holdiays,
I found if everything was bundled in together I wouldn't really know how much money I had to spend and then would over spend.
Now what is left in my current account is mine to spend on food, clothes, hairdressers, coffee when out and petrol - Every month I have the same amount to spend and I know all the other bills are taken care of and the money will be in each pot ready and waiting when I need to use it for a present, a holiday or if my dd2 needs a hockey stick form the sports account.