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Cold or Covid?

7 replies

Sixmonthcruise · 28/09/2023 11:23

I am a PA for a disabled man.

I see him for a few hours on a Tuesday and Thursday.

On Tuesday I noticed he was coughing a lot and sounded snotted up. He had an empty packet of strepsils and Vicks chest rub beside his bed and lots of tissues in his bin.
He’s always been a bit of a Covid denier and will often not tell you if he’s unwell etc. He would never test and refused even in the height of the pandemic.

I asked him if he had a cold and he just mumbled that he had a ‘slight’ cold although coughed and splattered (he never covers his mouth when he coughs and sneezes), the whole time I was there (4 hours). I did try to keep out of his way and busy myself cleaning and tidying etc.

I am due to go in again later today.

I know Covid is rife at the moment and if I’m going to get it then there isn’t too much I can do other than wrap myself up in an isolated bubble but it’s just that it’s my DD’s 18th this weekend and we have lots planned and all paid for. Of all the weekends to come down with something, this is not the weekend we’d want. My parents will also be there and mum has a weakened immune system.

So what I am asking I suppose is could this possibly just be the common cold? Everyone (including me!) automatically jumps to a Covid conclusion if someone has a respiratory virus. He didn’t appear to have a temperature and ate all the lunch I prepared him so obviously still had an appetite.

I’m just hesitant to go today if it could possibly be Covid as when I had it (last summer), I felt so rough with it and it would be awful to spoil DD’s special day.

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weirdoboelady · 28/09/2023 11:27

You are being illogical. If you catch WHATEVER he has, it will spoil DD's special day.

Added to which, he is BVU not testing.

Don't go in, and generally I would expect him to wear a mask while you are there, if he is coughing or sneezing at ALL.

caramond · 28/09/2023 11:29

A bad cold would disrupt your plans too...

That said, I've had a cold this week - tested twice for covid and both tests negative so I assume it's really just a cold.

Nejnej · 28/09/2023 11:45

It could be either. I had COVID 2 weeks ago, and a new cold for the last 5 days - and the cold has floored me more!

OdeToBarney · 28/09/2023 12:15

Another one to say it could be either. I had covid last week and wasn't too unwell. The last couple of days, I appear to have come down with a different virus and feel absolutely horrendous. Lateral flow tests have been negative for a few days, as are DDs (also unwell). Either would spoil your plans, but arguably the common cold/non-covid virus more, as I feel so much worse than when I had covid!

Iliketulips · 28/09/2023 14:30

No way of knowing unless he tests. Wearing a mask, trying to distance from him and opening as many windows as you can, should reduce your chances.

If you're worried about your Mum, then do a covid test shortly before seeing her just in case.

Booksbooksbooksandmorebooks · 28/09/2023 14:32

I definitely have covid and I drill have an appetite..annoying as my throat is incredibly sore

hartman · 28/09/2023 17:34

I would wear an N95 mask, maintain a distance, and try to open some windows. Or not go!

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