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I think my son has covid but I cannot test him.

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Usernumber636272637373 · 23/12/2022 14:53

He is autistic. We've tested a few times before and it's hell. We pretty much had to hold him down, I refuse to do that again. I would rather he stayed in for a few days no isolation and testing isn't mandatory.

he is very congested, earache, fatigued, slight cough and says he can't smell properly (he does have issues with sense of smell anyway since his last bout of covid a year ago and extremely sensitive to even small changes in his smell). He started off with mild cold symptoms on Sunday/Monday and has got worse during the week. He's usually full on but he's pretty much been lying on the sofa for days. The rest of us don't have whatever he's got - yet and symptom free.

we all had covid this time last year so I'm gutted we could have it again or even if it's not covid we have whatever this is. I've not given covid much thought for a while.

we are meant to be seeing family tomorrow, I've told them he's unwell but they insist we still come as it's likely just a cold and they said they aren't fussed on catching it but I would feel awful if it was covid and spread it on. I feel like we should stay home. We were planning to be home just the 4 of us Christmas Day anyway.

I think if it wasn't for changes in his smell I'd think it just a cold but I'm concerned over the lack of smell - although I've been losing my smell with your average cold way before covid was a thing. So it's hard to say. He can't blow his nose so mucus just doesn't shift and he hates vicks and any decongestants. He is so blocked up.

I have some tests, I could test myself and dh and perhaps Dd - who's actually had a cough for 2 weeks herself but no other symptoms. I assumed he'd caught we she had.

i just think it's best to stay home tomorrow (or at the very least away from other people).

they've made us feel guilty because we didn't see anyone last year due to covid!

wwyd?

OP posts:
Mindymomo · 23/12/2022 18:25

Firstly it would depend if he’s too unwell to go visiting, then I would stay at home. It’s such a shame having to miss out on things, 4 people in my family have had covid in the last 3 weeks, my cousin has it this week and hopes to test negative tomorrow or else she will stay home for Christmas. Hope he feels better soon.

Squirrellane · 23/12/2022 18:27

Personally I think it's sort of irrelevant if it's covid or not, he's either well enough to visit people or he's not. It's not up to them to make that decision. Cancel the visit if he's not well and rearrange.

SellFridges · 23/12/2022 18:29

Agree if he’s that unwell, he should stay home.

You can use bogies from a tissue to Covid test though.

Jules912 · 23/12/2022 21:50

My DD is the same and has just come down with something. I could just about bribe her to do the test when the alternative with 10 day's staying home, but no chance now. Fortunately we're not planning to see anyone until a few days after Christmas and they've said come anyway unless she passes it on to the rest of us.

Dedontdodatderdode · 23/12/2022 21:56

SellFridges · 23/12/2022 18:29

Agree if he’s that unwell, he should stay home.

You can use bogies from a tissue to Covid test though.

The instructions say to blow your nose to get rid of the mucous . The swab is supposed to collect cells, maybe snot wouldn’t give an accurate result?

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