@TheHomeEdit
I thought over 75s could still get them for free. Could your dad order them for you to use and visit him? Or are the care home using his allocation for their staff?
The only way for him to do it would be for me to order them for him - he doesn’t have a device let alone the capacity.
His address is the care home so he couldn’t order them for us.
And I’m sure i’d be accused of breaking rules in some way of I did.
The care home keep repeatedly sending emails saying not to ask them for tests as they can’t help so I am sure lots of families are asking them the same questions. And I’m sorry, but for £1,300 a week, I am sure they could afford a box of tests each week for the residents.
It’s just a shit situation all round.
Like I said, I take him out and he can go and do as he pleases - he lost his last year of health before dementia kicked and he had to go to a care home
being told to stay in his house (he didn’t want to, he didn’t care if he caught covid but he was constantly guilt tripped by his GP and friends). I am not keeping him locked up again.
I’ve had other family members telling me I will kill him by taking him out everywhere he wants - he’d rather be dead than live like he is now anyway, I want him to have little moments of enjoyment but other people think it’s better to “keep him safe” by making him stare at 4 walls for the rest of his life.