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Help me find the right words

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ConcernedAuntie · 22/12/2021 19:45

Posted earlier but as my post contained a quote from Facebook which contained anti-vax sentiments it was, rightly, taken down. As I was disagreeing with the post I didn't put two and two together.

Anyway. A very good friend keeps putting anti-vax stuff on Facebook. I usually just roll my eyes and scroll on but today, for some reason, I found the post really offensive. I am menopausal and sleep deprived and it didn't just wash over me as it usually does.

The post was basically very derogotary about people (it didn't actually say sheeple) who have been, in their eyes, unnecessarily vaccinated, just because they are told to.

Now, they are perfectly entitled to their views , and I have made no comment to them about their decision not to have the vaccine. However, I want to ask them if they think my DH and I are some sort of idiots who blindly do what the authorities tell us without giving it any thought?

I have found the sentiments of this particular post really personally hurtful and feel I have some right of reply but can't find the words. I don't want to fall out with them completely as we have so much fun in normal times but don't feel that I can just let it go wthout comment, although I know that we will have to just agree to disagree.

As a bit of back information we have lost a family member to Covid and the devastation it has bought to his family and children has been heartbreaking, so it probably colours my views.

Any ideas?

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Potatodrivers · 22/12/2021 20:00

Like you said in your post you will have to agree to disagree.
If you want to remain their friend then either say something, or don't.

Personally, I think the division that has been created has caused enough damage and I wouldnt think it was worth getting into a discussion about. Especially since you do not want to fall out with this person. Though I can understand why it has upset you. Is it worth a potential falling out, really?

BogRollBOGOF · 22/12/2021 20:03

Hide or block.
There's no point in engaging with genuinely anti-vaxx people. (Being hesitant over specific issues is a different matter)

BingoLingFucker · 22/12/2021 20:04

Personally I would block and move on.

A family member has also gone down this route and has caused a lot of fallout and hurt. There’s no getting through though, it’s like a cult.

Awakened22 · 22/12/2021 20:09

If you sleep on it and can’t let it go, pick up the phone and don’t reply on Facebook. You say she’s a close friend so talk to her from the heart about how you felt reading it. Some of the best conversations I have with friends are when our views/opinions are the complete opposite as we learn from each other. Just because we disagree on topics doesn’t mean we can’t still like each other and respectfully agree to disagree.

Flaxmeadow · 22/12/2021 22:57

Politley and calmly ask for the source of their 'information'. Even if they do provide one, be wary because some of it will look legitimate at first glance but dig deeper.

I've seen some really strange conspiracy and covid denial in magazine links and some confusing untitled graphs. The magazines and blogs at first look ok, with titles like 'science' and 'nature' and written by 'dr' so and so, but they often turn out to be utter nonsense publications and often hidden amongst more mainstream articles or out of date, for example before Omicron

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