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Do the vaccines reduce viral loads for transmissions

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Jellypot · 08/10/2021 11:40

My understanding is that the vaccines won't stop you from getting covid but it's supposed to reduce the chances of serious sickness or disease. Is that correct?

So you can still get covid after vaccines and it might turn out to be like a cold or a flu. Can you still pass it onto other people if you are vaccinated and feel unwell?

Basically my mother is a nightmare to deal with. She is aging and in her late 60s. I think she might be losing her mind but I don't know. I don't live in the UK. I'm in Ireland and if anyone has family in Ireland your are likely aware of the housing and rental crisis that is happening. I'm greatful to have the roof over my head and I don't use my mother as if she is a slave and I do my part and pay towards bills and I help with other stuff. I am not using my mother thinking she is a free household slave or whatever other perception people might have of living at home. I just can't afford a roof over my own head. It's between home or homelessness.

I was running away there with a brief history. Anyways I am going through a difficult time with my mother. She was never able to comprehend the public health advice of covering coughs and sneezes and she coughs and sneezes into the open at home without a care in the world if she's carrying any infection or contagious infection. It wasn't so much a problem last year when in lockdown because she wasn't going anywhere but life is back to normal now. She goes on public transport about 2 or 3 times a week to have a day out because she gets bored easily in the home. My issue is that she doesn't like covering coughs or sneezes. She won't wear a mask properly and I think she is more likely to pick up an infection if not covid or some other viral infection. Not long ago she opened the fridge and coughed into the open fridge while she was looking for somto eat. Another day, she was coughing and sneezing standing over the open and just washed dishwasher. She refused to allow me to help and insisted on empting the dishwasher herself while she coughed over the clean dishes.

She has a heavy cold and I suggested for her to phone her GP to see what she should do incase its covid. We don't have the home tests like in the UK. I think they might be available in some pharmacies but the government and health authorities never recommended them. She has a heavy cold and she has refused to isolate. We don't usually isolate for colds by the way but with covid I am not too sure what the up the date guidelines are about isolation. She sat in her big chair last night like a throne watching TV coughing into the open and she's gone off now to have a day trip into town for herself, still coughing. There could be a chance this is covid and there could be a chance she is infecting others. It's just pure carelessness and selfishness from her.

OP posts:
WiseUpJanetWeiss · 08/10/2021 12:07

Yes vaccines do reduce the likelihood that you will get Covid, and reduce the severity if you do. If you get Covid and are coughing the fact you’re vaccinated will not reduce the chance of you spreading it.

Your DM coughing in her own dishwasher is fairly unimportant if she lives alone and isn’t expecting anyone else to use the crockery, but coughing on the bus is a big problem if she has Covid (and it’s pretty antisocial even if she just has a cold).

Doesn’t your HSE website tell you what to do if you are symptomatic.

WiseUpJanetWeiss · 08/10/2021 12:09

Here. She should get a PCR test, but I guess you can’t force her to. www2.hse.ie/conditions/covid19/symptoms/overview/

tinkerbellvspredator · 08/10/2021 12:12

Clearly not great, but doesn't sound like you can change her behaviour. Assuming you have previously had words about it.

If you're worried about risk to yourself, again I don't think there's much you can do except open windows and wash things like cutlery before you eat.

If it helps both my kids have had Covid now (at separate times) and coughed all over me, neither me nor DH nor grandparents picked it up - all vaccinated.

Jellypot · 08/10/2021 12:46

The issue is she's not going to be told what to do. She never fell into the anti covid and anti vaccine hole that goodness its just she will not be told what to do. Even though when I suggested phoning the GP, I did so in a softly way. It wasn't an order. You see the covid testing is done through the GPs here.

One small piece of consolidation that I am looking after myself very well. I take a cocktail of supplements every day just for general health and I am mindful of bone health too. I don't want to be in a position in a decade or too where my bones are weak so I eat healthy and I take vitamin D, calcium, k2, magnesium, vitamin c every day. About two winters ago there was a bad cold going around in both work and home and I never got it. I am hoping it will help ward off covid if my mother picks up covid. I'm still disappointed though because its so simple to use a tissue or cough into your elbow to contain the possibility of having any contagious infectious fluids/saliva. I have a brother at home and he's not looking after himself. He does have two vaccines/Moderna so that's good but aside from that, he eats badly with very little nutrition and vitamins and minerals. I am concerned about him too.

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WiseUpJanetWeiss · 08/10/2021 16:20

You see the covid testing is done through the GPs here.

The link I posted takes you to an online booking form.

DesertSky · 09/10/2021 13:18

Well I’ve been double vaccinated since the start of August and have been hit with Covid quite badly this week. 2 other members of the house have had it too. 1 more mildly (who is also double jabbed). There’s no logic to it.

DesertSky · 09/10/2021 13:21

My symptoms were mostly of a cold too - sneezing, very runny nose for several days, congestion and cough.

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