@Branleuse
It was absolutely a middle class lockdown, facilitated entirely by a huge army of working class people keeping things running and bringing them things.
Massive difference in experiences.
Can you imagine a true lockdown with noone allowed to work. In the beginning noone even had PPE. Couldnt get masks, couldnt get hand gel. Terrifying.
Agree with this to some extent.
On an individual level though, it’s hard to see what people could or should have done differently.
I already W’ed FH before the pandemic, self-employed (not an especially high earner). Luckily, work continued to come in during the pandemic. However at the beginning it wasn’t clear at all if this would be the case (or if it would totally dry up) and one of the first things I did was look at other options – including supermarket work. I also registered for the responders app and continued PT work in a local (non-essential) shop (during the times they were open).
Given how many people lost jobs and the fact the whole hospitality industry shut down, demand and competition for supermarket, warehouse, delivery jobs rose massively. I put in an application for universal credit early on (luckily I was able to withdraw this as things picked up again) and they were so inundated with new applications that they were just fast-tracking people without any checks (unheard of).
My partner was out on furlough for three months, while his company tried to see if they could manage without his role – they were desperate to get rid of people.
A lot of those people at home did and would have gladly taken on supermarket / warehouse / delivery / cleaning jobs.
A lot of ‘middle class’ home workers (think it is less clear cut than that – a sizeable portion of key workers are -doctors-, and many working at home are admin, customer service, etc.) found that their jobs were no longer important or needed.
The people WFH were also asked to do so to help support the NHS and save lives. People exposing themselves to risk during that time would not have unburdened the key workers of some of their risk. They would have increased it.
Yet many people were asked to commute into offices and forego social distancing so that their bosses could ‘watch’ them, and for no better reason. For what?
Like you, people are worried about their families, their health, their jobs (eg long Covid).
I think the people who took on that greater risk during that time should be recognised financially and materially – not just with claps and platitudes.
It is the government and the employers of key workers who should and who have the power to do this. I believe many, if not most people, WFH workers included, would support this.
I’m so sorry to hear about your Mum. 