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What one moment will always stay with you from this?

568 replies

Ostryga · 08/08/2021 03:04

Mine was realising panic shopping was everywhere, and that I needed to buy an entire food shop for Dd and I before lockdown.

I cried when I found a shop with chicken and milk.

The fear I felt of the virus at that time, and also not being able to make sure we had food is something I hope to never repeat.

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Lovelydovey · 08/08/2021 07:17

Many.

Being helped into full PPE by the palliative consultant before entering a covid ward to say goodbye to my DF. The day after, ringing my DM in another hospital to tell her my DF had passed away and begging the staff to be able to visit her to comfort her.

10 weeks later, my DM being admitted to the covid ward where my DF passed away and speaking to the same staff as looked after my DF. Being at her side as she passed away.

rottd · 08/08/2021 07:17

It was very satisfying after everyone had mocked the idea of stockpiles.

I still think some are ridiculous & thrive on the drama of it. In my part of London there was one day when the shops were cleared but the only thing you couldn't actually get was flour. Also it brought the community together well.

Stuffin · 08/08/2021 07:19

@CarlottaValdez

I think the police over reach was the scariest thing for me. They were so ready to make up law and start harassing people - it’s really affected how I view them.
As a white middle aged women to see how they behaved made me realise how naive I had been about trust.
hellcatspangle · 08/08/2021 07:20

Seeing the birthday card section of tesco taped off like a crime scene to stop people buying "non essential" stuff. I remember thinking to myself "the world has gone fucking mad".

sandgrown · 08/08/2021 07:22

My son took a night job at ASDA picking for in-line shopping. I dropped him off at 2am and the roads were deserted. I was often followed by police right to the back door of the store . I was a key worker myself and had a pass to confirm I could travel but it made me really uncomfortable.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 08/08/2021 07:22

I ran the local mutual aid response for my area. We saw lots and lots around food shortages/scarcity, but the thing that always rings out loudest is a well-spoken lady in her 70s saying that more than anything she wanted a tin of tuna. I had one at home and added it to her next food parcel. Other than that lots of phone calls from people all over the country ringing up saying they had parents locally who had no food in the house, they themselves couldn’t get an online shop through, and could we help.

CarlottaValdez · 08/08/2021 07:22

As a white middle aged women to see how they behaved made me realise how naive I had been about trust.

Yes this is exactly how I feel - I’ve all my life had the luxury of never feeling before that the police might arbitrarily decide to come at me. Real life lesson.

NoraLuka · 08/08/2021 07:22

President Macron made a speech about shutting schools. I was watching with my teenage DDs who cheered at the idea of no school, but it was only the smallest cheer and then one of them said «this is really bad, isn’t it?» and I said yes, then we sat watching the rest of the speech in silence.

sylbunny · 08/08/2021 07:22

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Inhellwithcovid · 08/08/2021 07:23

Talking to my son on the phone as he broke from the stress of being an ITU doc in the middle of the first wave and not being able to give him a hug.

ActonSquirrel · 08/08/2021 07:23

For me it was slowly watching the City of London empty out of people.

Couriers everywhere clearing buildings and taking things home for people. Empty restaurants.

The absolute insanity of many people I knew convinced they were going to die of covid when it had already been shown to be a mild illness for most.

Utter insanity

Tubbs99 · 08/08/2021 07:24

@feelingdizzy

Telling my teenagers that their Dad had died from Covid .
Condolences dizzy. How awful. Hope you and the DC are ok Flowers
WhereDoILook · 08/08/2021 07:25

I only work three days in my job in a supermarket. I came in after my four days off and as I walked in someone said 'have you seen how bad it is today?' I thought they were joking until I walked the length of the shop floor and saw aisles and aisles of empty shelves. I went in the back and cried.
Having to tell people over and over 'no, I'm sorry, we haven't' was so difficult. I felt like I was personally letting them all down. Little wins were hoarded and held onto. One day I overheard someone on the phone crying and that they couldn't find the right type of baby formula. I went over and asked and when she said what she was looking for I went into the back and got one for her. We were only putting a few out at a time because of theft and most of the locals know that. The look on her face when she realised it was ok got me through that day.
I think they were the people i felt most sorry for. The ones formula feeding who didn't know if they would be able to get hold of the milk they needed.

Arsebucket · 08/08/2021 07:25

@sandgrown

My son took a night job at ASDA picking for in-line shopping. I dropped him off at 2am and the roads were deserted. I was often followed by police right to the back door of the store . I was a key worker myself and had a pass to confirm I could travel but it made me really uncomfortable.
Dh had to drive me to hospital at 4am as I was 5 months pregnant and bleeding.

We were pulled over by the police and questioned on why we were in a car together and where we were going.

I’m afraid I wasn’t very nice to them.

Sparklehead · 08/08/2021 07:26

The are a number of stand out moments for me throughout this pandemic but two in particular will always stay with me and the first happened the morning after Boris Johnson declared the schools should all close (so the first day of the first lockdown) and that people should work from home if at all possible.
I work in a hospital and so had no choice but to go to work. I will always remember my cycle into work on that first morning. I’d left my children at home with my husband, the roads were eerily empty, very few cars, no kids walking to school, not even the usual dog walkers. I remember feeling really terrified and every fibre of my being was screaming out to turn round and go home where it was ‘safe’. At this point, we actually had very few Covid patients in the hospital but that morning I felt like I was cycling towards a certain death (I realise this sounds melodramatic, and I’m not normally like this, but there was so much fear in this first days and I was completely caught up in it).

Time went on, and whilst I could never totally shake off this sense of doom and still felt the daily worry of putting me and my family at risk, it all became more manageable. However, my second stand out moment came during the second wave of the pandemic, when our hospital was completely overwhelmed by Covid patients and I was assigned to work on the Covid wards. I was wearing the standard PPE for a general Covid ward (surgical mask, visor, gloves and apron) and was assisting a patient to get out of bed, my face close to hers, when she coughed and spluttered over me. I remember thinking, this PPE is not adequate, my mask is gaping and I think I will contract Covid from this patient. Sure enough, a week later, I developed symptoms, came down with the virus and subsequently infected my family with it, despite my best efforts to isolate from them (none of us got too poorly with it, and I was back at work within 2 weeks).

Of course there are many more moments that sum up the pandemic such as empty supermarket shelves, zoom chats with friends who live a few doors away, home-schooling angst, to name a few, but the two described above capture my experience of being a health worker in the pandemic and I don’t think I’ll ever forget them.

rottd · 08/08/2021 07:26

@Arsebucket giving birth alone must have been so hard. I was turfed out the morning after my CS, I was surprised at that!

@feelingdizzy & @Lovelydovey I'm sorry. My husband lost his dad & not being able to visit or celebrate his life with a proper funeral was horrible.

Crossstitchismyhobby · 08/08/2021 07:26

My in laws live 190 miles from us
Boris told us that we couldn’t travel far
My fil was telling us that we could come down and my mil was telling us we couldn’t
Fil won
Christmas Eve they rang to say it wasn’t worth it and we’d be arrested if we tried (mil had read that in the daily mail) so we had to run to Tesco just to buy food in

In March we lost my dear,loving amazing fil to cancer

So COVID cost us our last Christmas together

WhereDoILook · 08/08/2021 07:27

To add we put one unit limits on really early on as we could see where it was headed. People who came in after tea time kicking off about not being allowed to buy two bags of pasta didn't seem to grasp that if we didn't have limits on them then they wouldn't have been able to get anything.

sylbunny · 08/08/2021 07:28

I'm always trying to see positives in things and there were some happy times in it all. We are lucky that we didn't know anyone who died from covid.

I will never forget the stress of working from home and looking after a 2.5 year old but we learnt how strong our relationship is and how we work well together under stress. We are lucky to live in the countryside and we enjoyed exploring the area on our one walk each day. All the extra time we had together to do simple activities and how much my girl loved spending that time with us.

The fear of how ill I'd get when I had covid at 28 weeks pregnant but the gratefulness of how my local NHS trust supported me and how caring my toddler was.

Arsebucket · 08/08/2021 07:28

[quote rottd]@Arsebucket giving birth alone must have been so hard. I was turfed out the morning after my CS, I was surprised at that!

@feelingdizzy & @Lovelydovey I'm sorry. My husband lost his dad & not being able to visit or celebrate his life with a proper funeral was horrible. [/quote]
I know, I was so shocked!

To be honest, I would’ve been alone anyway in normal times as we have no one to look after the other two.

ATrifleofFun · 08/08/2021 07:28

I will never forget walking round the local Sainsbury's which had an aura of '28 days later' style panic. The most fascinating thing was what people weren't buying. Even when the world is ending noone wants canned lobster bisque.

Naaaaah · 08/08/2021 07:30

How quickly people turned on each other.

How much of an absolute bell end Boris Johnson is.

Inhellwithcovid · 08/08/2021 07:30

Also. A massively well off now ex friend posting a schmaltzy thing on Facebook about how great COVID was because she got to be off work (in her nice house with a big garden) so she could spend time with her children and how everyone should be grateful for the time it gave them to spend with their kids and it wasn’t that bad anyway only old people who were going to die anyway were dying.

She got ex friended pretty sharpish.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 08/08/2021 07:31

Telling my DD that her Nana (my mum), had died. I had to do via video call as DD lives 100 miles away. Watching her breakdown and not being able to put my arms around her and hold her like a mother should, broke what was left of my heart into a million tiny pieces.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 08/08/2021 07:33

Early on in the lockdown- just how quiet the M25 was when I was travelling (for essential work).

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